Chances are they don't want to tell you what their real reasons are... for fear of hurting you, for fear of making them look bad, or they might not even fully know or understand the real reasons themselves.
If you want to discover the truth and cut through the lies and ultimately save your marriage, there are several things you are going to have to learn and apply before you are able to make that happen.
If you're like the thousands of couples I've helped over the years, you'll have heard or used a few of the following reasons for ending a marriage:
tick "I love you but I'm not in love with you anymore..."
tick "We've grown apart."
tick "You've changed."
tick "You're not exciting or fun anymore."
tick "I've met someone else and I think I love them..."
tick "I hate you!"
tick "I'm sick of your nagging!"
tick "I don't want to be married anymore and there's nothing you can say that will make me change my mind."
Any of these sound familiar?
I know that when your marriage is teetering on a cliff edge it can feel like you are the only one in the world this is happening to, and feel completely devastated at hearing one of these lies, but let me tell you that you are not the only one who has heard these excuses and none of these have to spell the end of your marriage if you don't want it to.
It's about cutting through these lies, digging deep, and exposing the real reasons your marriage is in trouble, tackling the core of your crisis rather than going over the same old ground and having the same old arguments again and again... learning nothing and getting no further ahead!
The difference between a marriage that ends in divorce and one that fights back and survives is using and developing the right techniques and strategies that your marriage needs... at the optimum right time. It's about understanding and reconnecting with your core self and the crucial role you play in saving your marriage, even if you are the only one that wants to save it, the values you want to bring to your marriage, what to say, how to say it, and when, and developing this into a formula for success!
My Save My Marriage Today system will strip back the lies you have been told and teach you fundamental values, communication, and relationship skills that will not only bring your marriage back from the brink of divorce, but will give you a solid foundation from which to build an even better marriage and future that will GUARANTEE you will never face the searing, body-numbing pain of a marriage crisis or breakup ever again.
I've seen the most toxic and damaged marriages that appeared to be absolutely beyond repair turned around and saved, becoming stable, intimate, loving unions, stronger than ever. Heaps of people have bounced back from a huge range of nightmare issues, such as:
arrow lingering and poisonous unresolved conflicts
arrow extra-marital affairs
arrow emotional detachment and a lack of physical intimacy
arrow excessive fighting and negative thinking
arrow ineffective communication or long bouts of stony silence
arrow busy schedules overtaking quality couples time
arrow a suspicious, untrusting, or suffocating partner
arrow children and family issues
arrow trial separations
arrow and many more complex and difficult situations
I've helped over 6000 couples disarm and stop divorces from happening to them, and I'm telling you I can deliver the same great results for YOU and YOUR MARRIAGE... even if you are the only one that wants to save it!
Keep reading and I'll tell you how to resolve your marriage problems and gain the intimate and supportive relationship you always dreamed of!
Why Should You Listen To Amy Waterman?
I'm a professional writer specializing in attraction and dating, but most specifically marriage counseling and relationship guidance. I have extensive experience in helping thousands of people re-establish love with my unique insightful and powerful secrets into attracting love and making relationships work.
It's my life's passion. Over the years I have helped thousands of men and women fix their marriages and unhappy relationships and also bring back the love and communication to couples that are suffering.
I am the author and host of:
- Save My Marriage Today
I have also co-authored and hosted a number of other leading online courses such as:
- How to Be Irresistible to Men
- Make Every Man Want You More
- Seduction Genie
- 2nd Chance: How to Win Back the Love of Your Ex
- Conversation Chemistry
- Supreme Self Confidence
- Real Women, Real Love
"The biggest benefit I have gained from "Save My Marriage Today" was perspective. There were so many lessons about how to look at what was happening in my life from a different angle. I needed clarity and hope and "Save My Marriage Today" gave me that. They used practical tips and things that I could really work on to be proactive in salvaging my relationship with my husband. The true examples from real people gave me insight that you can really survive an affair! This web site is different from many others in that the focus of the "advice" and help really reflects the name ---- "Save My Marriage Today." Other web sites may not have that as a goal, but the salvation of my marriage was definitely what I was looking for."
-- Rhonda K. (Cottageville, SC)